by Guest on Mon 19 Dec 2011 - 18:16
shaz1 wrote:Well done jonsmum I hope everything goes straightforward for you.
FinnMicky, I would be grateful for any `Armour` you could throw my way regarding `social versus `nursing care` and the `two homes` issue as I have a LRP pending and will probably end up at IRP.
As you know my mother entered `residential care` in Feb 2011 and we applied for CHC straight away, our first DST/MDT was May 2011 and we were turned down saying her needs were `social` and she was in her `prefered residential` blah blah.
We then put in for reveiw on change of needs grounds and our second MDT/DST was held Oct 2011 and we were told three weeks later we had been successful but they would only award from August 2011 as this was when palliative care became involved! I expressed that I think it should have been from May and I will appeal the period Feb to May but they have chosen to ignore me. They are now trying to move mum into nursing but unfortunately she has a severe chest infection ( she has lung cancer) and the palliative nurse says she is too sick to move and they should have done it sooner and is insisting that they nurse mum in her current `residential` home and move her to the hospice when her end is here {providing there is a bed) Needless to say it is not going down well with the CHC people.
My question is are we helping or harming our case keeping in her current placement? and if and when her infection clears would we be better to go along with them? and what should we reply to them regarding this issue of them only paying from march? As you say I am VERY wary of greeks bearing gifts!
She has had `health ` needs since entering care and has had frequent specialist and doctor visits but as you know they insist it all hinges on physical `nursing input`.
The straight answer is that you are totally entitled to fully funded care, and the rest of this is just 'mucking around'. She is obviously very ill indeed, and the 'social care' argument comes up time and time and time again. If you can spare some of that time, then take a trawl through the Stickies. Esquires has dealt with this over many years, but this social care nonsense is just a red herring - very red indeed.
As ever this is nothing more than emotional bullying. You and Jonsmum are in a very vulnerable state, and the health people know it, and take full advantage of it. No matter how they do it - good cop, bad cop, or more probably, good nurse, bad nurse - they only want one result. A signature on a piece of paper saying you - or your mother's estate - will pay. Don't sign. for goodness sake.
And DO NOT feel guilty about anything, and don't allow them to make you feel guilty in any way. You are doing the right thing by your mother, purely because she needs the right kind of healthcare. She needs experienced medical staff, and that is it. You have done everything necessary for your mother so far.
And, as I asked jonsmum, do you have Power of Attorney? That is a very important weapon in your fight, and believe me, it is a fight, and you will need strength as you are fighting for your mother and everyone else in your position - think of it like that.
Keep me informed.