Someone else said recently "I don't like the way this thread is going" - can't remember now whether it was this thread or another one. Can't be ar.ed trying to locate it either.
If I posted now that I am a Brain Surgeon turned Accountant turned Solicitor turned Social Worker .... would you have any way of accepting that? Or any way of questioning that? Or even any way of showing that I am not a failed Brain Surgeon (which I am not!!)?
Does it matter what any one of us does in our 'real life'?
Derek J Cole may have taken a legal/law degree, and may be able to add letters to the end of his name, but that doesn't make him a lawyer. I have a couple of qualifications that don't make me a ............. midwife!(Joke!! Joke!!) All it means is that I have done the studying, passed the exams, and got the qualifications that enable me to add those letters to the end of my name. If I choose to do so, of course, which I don't often.
But all it shows is that I've done the studying and the exams. It doesn't indicate that I have ever practised as a .... qualified midwife! (Which I am not, but I hope you get my point.)
For all I know, FinnMickey, you may be a Tax Inspector in your real life. Or a Traffic Warden, a Taxi Driver. Or ..... even a (failed!) Solicitor.
I don't care one way or the other. Any more than I care about what Mike J does for a 'day job'. All I will say is that based on Mike J's posts it has never entered my thinking that he might just be a solcitor. Call me stupid, if you will, but I've just not seen that thought before.
Mike J posted about his involvement with dementia and with trying to find the way through the mire to support his wife and MIL. A couple of years ago now, or thereabouts. But don't hold me to that one, because I haven't gone back to check it all again recently ............ but yes, I did once!! As no doubt anyone does when they want to know more about anyone's background.
I wouldn't dream of asking what anyone on this website does for a means of earning a living.
Or have you been approached, FinnMickey, by anyone touting for business?
Sorry, folks, but I don't see the point in this discussion............... to which I have just contributed.
VM